That's why I just stick to Reddit. Leaks and news get posted there almost immediately after being posted on NegGAF and the negative posts usually get downvoted into oblivion, which I don't even see unless I go fishing for them.
Being harsh towards NMS has become somewhat of a circlejerk on Reddit, but most top rated posts are just reasonable people voicing their disappointment that Hello Games decided to be so coy and somewhat misleading about NMS, not that games like NMS shouldn't exist or that devs shouldn't try new things.
NMS is just the new thing to hate, as was Fallout 4 before it and Destiny before that. Within the next few months, I doubt most people will even care to remember the NMS hate-train. For video games in today's online society, it's just the circle of life.